Why bitches bitch

Why bitches bitch

I want to get to the truth about the bitches/haters and all round toxic people in the world. After a slow elimination of the “nasty” peeps in my life and yes they lurk every where. I think I’m at a point where I’m starting to understand why these bitches are this way.

Think about it. When we are negative it’s usually because we are in someway insecure. In fear of not “getting” something or “feeling lack” in some way. I know when I bitch its purely my insecurities and I am big enough to own that. It is actually so apparent when I bitch or I’m negative about someone/something that it’s all because I feel “less than” to me bitching screams INSECURITY which is so sad and ugly. I usually am overcome with a deep sense of guilt and shame for bitching. But the truth is sometimes we need a vent (and that’s ok) but don’t let it ooze out into being about someone else and tearing them apart because you feel shitty. When we look deeper, we find the lack that is within us and I always ask “how can I nourish that part of me”. It usually eliminates my need to bitch and I focus on what I need to work on in myself.Continue Reading

Dance like nobody’s watching

Dance like nobody’s watching

The craziest I get on a weekend these days is having a fabulous meal with friends and 1 to many glasses of Pinot Noir. I thought because I am so often well-behaved I might just go out with my husband and get a little loose. We had dinner at Alpha with our two best friendsContinue Reading

Over indulged? The secret to getting back on track.

Over indulged? The secret to getting back on track.

This weekend I ate a lot!!! I loved every mouth full and have no regrets.. But now its time to even it out. Friday night I ate at Mr Wongs, Saturday I had a risotto and then had lots and lots of hot chips and yesterday I had a delicious pasta for lunch and thenContinue Reading

Inspiring women: Modelco CEO Shelley Barrett

Inspiring women: Modelco CEO Shelley Barrett

I got the privilege of sitting down for a few minutes with the über successful business woman Shelley Barrett who created Model Co. We talked about what inspires her, the keys to running a successful business and  Jimmy Choos of course! I hope you enjoy! What did you aspire to be as a little girl? -          From a youngContinue Reading

Candle Fiend

I have an obsession with fresh flowers and burning scented candles. I love to have both of these in most rooms of my home at all times. There was a time when I couldn’t afford fresh flowers or even more than one scented candle at a time. So I thought this next blog could beContinue Reading

Delish Review: Sake

Delish Review: Sake

Delish is a new part of KYW where every fortnight I am going to write an extremely honest restaurant review. The good, the bad and the ugly of the experience. Some of these places I have been going to forever some will be new experiences. All the restaurants will range in price. I will shareContinue Reading

WTF

WTF

I had the worst start to my 2nd day as a 30 year old. I woke up to 1 text and 1 email. The text was sent on my birthday (night before) at 11.56pm. I only received it when I woke up. It was the most disgusting, abusive and toxic messages I have ever received.Continue Reading

30 things I learnt before 30

30 things I learnt before 30

1. Forgive: No matter what hardships life has dealt me or how long it took to forgive its possibly one of the most important things we need to learn to do in life. Letting go of hate, resentment and all that is attached to anger liberates us. This can be a long process and sometimesContinue Reading

The relaxed lob.

The relaxed lob.

I am really happy I got the lob (long bob) I had very long dark hair for so long I knew it was time for a change.. 30 is around the corner and its time for a fresh and trendy start! I went to my fav salon in Sydney Juliana Marcs in double bay andContinue Reading

So what’s next?

So what’s next?

I’m baaaaaack!! After an incredible time in NZ working with the most incredible people and some would say having dream jobs (yes two) I am back in Aus. My initial feeling when I knew we were leaving Auckland was panic. But it was the familiar feeling I had when I was told we were leavingContinue Reading