Its taken me a while to figure this out but your man or woman, lover, bae- whatever, isn’t supposed to fulfil all your needs.
I was disappointed for quite some time wanting Benj to be my spiritual and emotional equal. We are very different and I love him with every bit of me but he doesn’t want to philosophise over the meaning of life with me. Nor does he want to detox or meditate. For a while I couldn’t understand why he wouldn’t even “Try” I was upset and frustrated but over time it started to sink in.
He is blokey and low maintenance and that’s what I fell in love with. He is the ying to my yang.
I realised I have friends that I can share my love of metaphysics and travel with. I have friends that will be honest if my outfit is crazy or more importantly if my behaviour to my husband is crazy.Continue Reading