I want to get to the truth about the bitches/haters and all round toxic people in the world. After a slow elimination of the “nasty” peeps in my life and yes they lurk every where. I think I’m at a point where I’m starting to understand why these bitches are this way.
Think about it. When we are negative it’s usually because we are in someway insecure. In fear of not “getting” something or “feeling lack” in some way. I know when I bitch its purely my insecurities and I am big enough to own that. It is actually so apparent when I bitch or I’m negative about someone/something that it’s all because I feel “less than” to me bitching screams INSECURITY which is so sad and ugly. I usually am overcome with a deep sense of guilt and shame for bitching. But the truth is sometimes we need a vent (and that’s ok) but don’t let it ooze out into being about someone else and tearing them apart because you feel shitty. When we look deeper, we find the lack that is within us and I always ask “how can I nourish that part of me”. It usually eliminates my need to bitch and I focus on what I need to work on in myself.Continue Reading